Sick of being single? More content from YourTango: Only tell your therapist or your dog everything about them. Be awesome. What if holding out on your affection or not being honest about the way you feel makes the person want to give up the chase? Pay attention to whether there is a good balance in the conversation. But opening up good lines of communication is key to a healthy partnership.
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You are a teddy bear and chocolates and everything sweet that he is feeling.
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Try not to harp on the "rules" so much. Women should also be selective about what they reveal when first getting to know someone. This is because it can come off as combative or invasive, especially if you've never had any tricky conversations and don't know how the other person navigates and manages conflict or discomfort.